Category: Negotiation

Alternative Dispute Resolution Negotiation The Craft of Lawyering

Do The Facts Or The Law Still Matter In Mediation?

[This originally appeared in the Los Angeles Daily Journal.] I was recently vetting some potential mediators with a colleague whose opinion I generally respect. In response to one of his proposals, I said, “yeah,…

November 13, 2014
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Alternative Dispute Resolution Negotiation The Craft of Lawyering

Learn To Negotiate Like A Transactional Lawyer

I recently had lunch with  Mark Fingerman, a Los Angeles lawyer who has successfully transitioned from being a litigator to a full-time mediator. As I often do, when I get an opportunity to talk shop with…

January 27, 2014
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Books Negotiation The Craft of Lawyering

When All You Hear Is “No”

Have you ever found yourself negotiating with a brick wall? Maybe not a wall, but an opponent, coworker, spouse or five-year old so entrenched in her position that it seems to take a herculean…

December 26, 2013
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Careers Negotiation The Craft of Lawyering

One Lawyer’s Secret Weapon

A lawyer I know, he has a Secret Weapon. When I get around to revealing it, you’re going to be surprised, because it’s so obvious. But it totally works. First, a pop quiz: Question…

December 12, 2013
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Alternative Dispute Resolution Negotiation The Craft of Lawyering

Settlement Negotiations: Anchors Aweigh!

Buyers snatched up a weathered house on my street late last year, and I soon learned they intended to remodel and “flip” it for a profit. A couple of weeks ago, the house, completely…

August 12, 2013
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Alternative Dispute Resolution Negotiation The Craft of Lawyering

Lawyers: Channel Your Inner Spock

The media, film, and TV have long fueled a belief that the most important quality any lawyer can possess is the ability to conduct a withering cross-examination of a pivotal witness. As practitioners, we know…

July 5, 2013
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Alternative Dispute Resolution Negotiation The Craft of Lawyering

Demystifying The Notion Of A “Mediator’s Proposal”

Every lawyer whose practice includes mediating civil cases is bound at some point to come face to face with the concept of a “mediator’s Proposal,” also called a “mediator’s number.” Here’s what happens: the…

May 9, 2013
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Alternative Dispute Resolution Negotiation The Craft of Lawyering

Avoiding The Very Worst Bargaining Position

So much in our lives, both professional and personal, lies outside our control. Focusing on the professional, most lawyers will never be fortunate enough to be able to limit our practice to only perfect clients who march into…

March 6, 2013
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